holidays! what purpose does one tag with weekends and holidays? It seems that holidays are for emotional accomplishments, holidays for this one, are unique opportunities to process how the adult family tree learned about arch-type themes, for example,
" mom, how did your mother and father show love for you? " " aunt how did your brother and sisters show conflict with you"? Or the holiday overtime is too good to miss out on, and the family probing can wait. Either way it is helpful to remind ourselves that we act and will act or have acted based on the information available at the time! Any new information gained since then can now be used to make different decisions. So if you put time investing in ones emotional intelligence, it is fair to assume, that when trigger X stimulates, that we could have other options to which to respond with.
" mom, how did your mother and father show love for you? " " aunt how did your brother and sisters show conflict with you"? Or the holiday overtime is too good to miss out on, and the family probing can wait. Either way it is helpful to remind ourselves that we act and will act or have acted based on the information available at the time! Any new information gained since then can now be used to make different decisions. So if you put time investing in ones emotional intelligence, it is fair to assume, that when trigger X stimulates, that we could have other options to which to respond with.
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